Sunday, November 18, 2012

Family



To me a family is defined as having two parents and children.  This can include married parents or two people who are cohabiting.  It can also include adopted children or biological children.  However, I think a family does need to include children because if it were just two people I think that would be defined as a couple.  Family members care for each other and are there for you in times of need.  They are also there to provide emotional support and usually can be trusted.  There are many types of relationships which I consider family like a heterosexual man and women who have been married for 12 years and have two children, two gay men who have cohabited for 20 years who have an adopted son and man and woman in their second marriage who have 5 children from their previous marriage.  I think some of the relationships that don’t fit my definition of family would be a single man who has built a close relationship with friends whom he considered his family and a child-free lesbian couple.   However, now that I look at some of the relationships I see that my definition is very narrow.  I think a grandmother who raises her granddaughter and a single mom whose mother just moved in with her can also be considered a family. 


1 comment:

  1. Hi Bee,

    I think that everyone is entitled to their own opinions about what a family is and I am glad to see that we agree on many things. I do think that we differ in some areas however, such as your saying that a family needs two parents. At the end of your post you said that a single mom whose mother just moved in too could be considered a family. I think that you may have just miswrote that because I think you may have meant single mom with a child that has just moved back in. If that’s the case, we are eye to eye. I also think that a couple could be a family in itself. I think that when two people commit to one another and marry, that is the start of their family. If unwed or lacking of commitment (such as a boyfriend/girlfriend situation) then I would agree with you; that is not a family quite yet.

    Thanks for the post!

    Sea Star

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