My husband and I first met online and it became an I-you
relationship. Our communication started
out by sharing our common interests. We
were both very into motorcycles so we shared stories about our experiences. We avoided talking about relationships and
mainly focused on what interested us.
Once we started to get to know one another our communication became
more personal. We talked about past
relationships, our families and what we wanted to do in the future. In the early stages of our relationship it
was very individualistic. Now our
current relationship is more about us as a whole. Our communication consists of the future like what we want to do and where we see ourselves. Our relationship focuses on us and not just
what we want to do as individuals. There was a time when there was a difference in our shared fields of experience. As
our relationship grew I knew I wanted to get married. However, my husband was still having fun in
our relationship not thinking about the future. The more our relationship grew he decided he wanted to get married. So here we are married and looking toward the future.
I think it's inspiring how you and your husband met online, but that did not stop you guys from having a wonderful relationship. Most people have the belief that relationships that start out over the internet do not last long, but it truly is amazing how you guys were able to make it work and now be happily married. I can also relate on how in the beginning of your relationship, both of you avoided talking about past relationships. I believe that, that topic is a sensitive one to talk about especially because it's only the start. It's also beautiful how your relationship was more about you two together and not as individuals. I hope you continue on having a lovely marriage :)
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